That awkward moment when you don't know if a car is going to let you cross:
I’m usually like
Take risks: If you win, you will be happy; if you lose, you will be wise.
Don't ever use someone's past against them. You're just reminding them of the mistakes they made back then. If you watch their facial expression carefully, then you'll see the hurt in their eyes as they reminisce everything that happened. Never use emotion as a weapon, it strikes deeper than you can imagine.